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The Formalization of Your Village

Posted by Thomas on December 16, 2011

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When it comes to a rites of passage program for boys a key component needed to execute the program and final ceremony is the child’s village. As parents our circle of family and friends makes up that village as I wrote about in What Does Your Village Look Like.

For a moment let’s step outside the confines of a rites of passage program into manhood and speak in simple parenting terms. Whoever we as parents associate with while we are rearing our children those people will influence our children (as much or as little as we allow consciously). Thus it behooves us (parents) to be extremely mindful of the people we allow into our lives. “What is that person’s character and how will it impact me and my children?” is a good starting question.

No parent raises a healthy well-adjusted son or daughter alone. We all need the guidance, support, and encouragement of other parents during our journey. Beyond the support from others we need that extended web of family and friends to be just as conscientious as we are about guiding our son successfully into responsible manhood.

The members of your village can come from any sphere of your life. They can be of different heritage and lineage. Village members can have different beliefs and family traditions from your family. The important thing is the village shares your core beliefs surrounding family, love, and support related to raising your son to be his best self.

Mark Morey has an awesome post on his blog about the formalization of his village. It is an inspiring story how we can consciously turn the mundane into the sacred as we support ourselves and other parents along the journey of parenthood resulting in guiding our sons to be their best selves.

Peace,

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Boys Rites of Passage Free eBook

Posted by Thomas on October 29, 2011

Thank you for your interest in learning more about designing a custom fitted rites of passage program for your son that is unique to him and espouses your family’s values.

Our family successfully made the journey of creating a rites of passage program for our son. The free eBook, A Rites of Passage Framework, is now available for download! I chose the weekend of October 29, 2011 in honor of my son’s departure in a few days for the U.S. Coast Guard.

I welcome your contact. This topic is dear to me and I suspect to you as well. So let’s connect. I would like to hear about your experiences with a rites of passage.

Let’s better guide our boys into responsible male adulthood by giving them even more of what they need to become their best self through a rites of passage program. Download your free copy of A Rites of Passage Framework here.

Peace,

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